Woah...It's been a long time, huh.

I'm not really in the mood to write right now, but what the heck. There's nothing better to do.

I haven't been bothered by anything lately. No controversy has arisen that deserves mention in this documentary of a period of my adolescence. I've got the details in my head, and they shouldn't be written down.

Good night.

Glad to have resolved things. Stig.

Change. It's something that everyone goes through. Sometimes, it can be stopped...Other times, it's somewhat vital, necessary...You get what I mean. Okay, now here's the reason why I brought up the topic. Some people judge change. At my age now, change is normal...Heck, it's gotta happen. People have to grow up. People have to become more mature with each significant event that passes. Even so, with the common knowledge of this, some people have to criticize change. To stay the same would be abnormal... To keep the same outlook on life, to have the same interests, to be involved in the same activities for so long is just plain stupid...But people still have to stick their noses into things. Often, I hear the never-ending echo of "YOU'VE CHANGED." Most of the time, it's about appearance...Most of the time, it's a positive change. Other times, negativity comes about. When something significant or someone special comes into someone's life, they're bound to change...They're bound to adjust their priorities. They're bound to become somewhat different. FRIENDS WOULD ACCEPT THAT. Friends wouldn't criticize...Friends wouldn't wish that the old self of that person would come back. Friends would accept that change is something that happens, and even though they may feel more distant to a specific person, they would still refer to that person as their "close friend", because they care about the happiness of this so-called "changing" person. What real friends go through together should be enough to withstand change. Those who make judgements fail to look at themselves and realize their own selfish mistakes. They just keep venting and venting on how they feel now that their so-called friend has someone else to talk to. They don't even make the effort to fit themselves into her busy schedule. They want her to do all the work. They want her to change back...so they can do the childish things that they once did...Perhaps, they don't care about her happiness. They only care about themselves. THEY CAN'T UNDERSTAND THAT IT HAS TO HAPPEN. She's happy now, and a real friend would say that "that is all that matters."

This might help. (Some of you have no idea...I can see the question marks popping up from your heads...A sight we always see during CL class.)

1 CO 13:4

"Love is patient, love is kind. It is not jealous, is not pompous, it is not inflated, it is not rude, it does not seek its own interests, it is not quick-tempered, it does not brood over injury, it does not rejoice over wrongdoing but rejoices with the truth. It bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things."